Being a single parent was hard enough, but being one to a teenager close to finishing high school was another story. I learned that the hard way when I accidentally took my daughter’s purse, thinking it was mine. Inside were items that had my heart racing and caused me to drive back home anxiously!
I was running late for work, as usual. Coffee in hand, I grabbed my purse from the counter and dashed out the door. It wasn’t until I reached the car, plopped my handbag onto the passenger seat, and started driving that I realized something felt off. The purse was heavier than normal, and my heart skipped a beat when I opened it…
A doubtful woman holding a purse | Source: Midjourney
I stared at the purse for a moment while driving, hoping that somehow I was imagining things. But no, this wasn’t mine; it was Allison’s. My daughter, Allison, received the same purse just yesterday as a birthday gift.
She’d been eyeing one exactly like mine for years, but I never allowed her to use it, telling her it was far too expensive for a teenager. And yet, now my seventeen-year-old child had one: a pristine, identical red purse. I remembered her being so excited, claiming happily, “All my friends chipped in and bought it for me!”
A happy girl holding a purse | Source: Midjourney
“Great,” I muttered to myself, realizing I had to dig through the bag to ensure it really wasn’t mine before turning the car back and running inside. I parked on the side and opened it up, rifling through it. Then, something odd caught my eye.
Among the usual teen paraphernalia like lip gloss, earphones, and a phone charger, there was something out of place… a key. Not just any key, though… this was a key to a hotel room. My hand paused mid-air, my breath catching…
A shocked woman holding a hotel room key | Source: Midjourney
Beside it, tucked neatly in a side pocket, was something even more unsettling: a FAKE ID with Allison’s picture staring back at me!
“What in the world?” I whispered, feeling a wave of panic roll over me.
This wasn’t the kind of thing I expected to find in my daughter’s purse. Allison was always the responsible one, the straight-A student, the girl who stayed home on Saturday nights to study or hang out with her best friend, Chloe. So, what on earth was she doing with a hotel key and a fake ID?
A shocked woman holding a fake ID | Source: Midjourney
Without thinking twice, I started the car and immediately proceeded to the local hotel. My mind raced with possibilities, none of them good. Was she in trouble? Was she sneaking around? And what kind of trouble would need a hotel room and a fake ID?
I wasn’t going to wait to find out!
By the time I reached the hotel, I was trembling. My grip on the steering wheel was so tight that my knuckles had turned white! This wasn’t something I ever thought I’d have to do: show up at a hotel and search for answers about my daughter.
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Realizing I was going to be late for work, I decided to call in, using my only child as an excuse for my absence that day. After all, I wasn’t really lying.
I figured whatever I discovered in that hotel room would work me up so much that I wouldn’t be able to concentrate on my job.
When I entered the lobby of the hotel, my heart was POUNDING! After some awkward fumbling and a bit of sweet-talking, I managed to get the room number. I stood outside the door, keycard in hand, bracing myself for whatever was on the other side. I didn’t know what I expected, but it certainly wasn’t this!
A worried woman entering a hotel room | Source: Midjourney
Although I didn’t want to think it, my mind played out a scenario where an older boy or grown man was sitting and waiting for my daughter in that room. What if Allison wasn’t going to school but was staying with him the whole day?
As a single mother, I prepared to go on the offensive and to fight, if needed, to save my precious child! With that, I swung the door open to reveal a small, neatly organized room. Allison’s clothes were strewn about, but intentionally; like she was comfortable here. It felt homey.
There were framed pictures of her and Chloe, smiling and carefree, placed on the nightstand. A laptop sat open on the desk, and the screen was filled with lines of code, some kind of programming language I couldn’t begin to decipher.
I blinked, my confusion deepening. Was she… coding? What was this place? Why would my daughter need a secret hotel room to work on a computer?
I took a deep breath, staring at the computer screen. This didn’t make sense. Allison was supposed to be at school, not holed up in a hotel room with a fake ID and a laptop full of code. I closed the laptop gently, not wanting to mess with anything too much. But I couldn’t help the nagging feeling that there was more to this than met the eye…
I was lucky not to find anything relating to boys, men, or dating, which allowed me to breathe a bit easier. But I was still unsure what my daughter was up to. I left the hotel in a daze, my mind swirling with unanswered questions.
As I drove back home, trying to calm my racing thoughts, I spotted Chloe walking down the street. I pulled over quickly and called out to her, hoping for some clarity.
“Chloe!” I waved her over. “Hey, I wanted to thank you for Allison’s purse! She’s been over the moon about it.”
Chloe looked confused. “Mrs. Davis, I didn’t get her a purse. I gave her that book she wanted.”
A chill ran down my spine. “Wait… are you sure? I thought you all chipped in to buy her the purse.”
Chloe shook her head. “No, ma’am, she told me she only wanted books this year. I don’t think anyone got her the purse.”
I felt the ground beneath me shift. If Chloe hadn’t gotten her the purse, and none of the other friends had either, then WHERE had it come from?!
“Aren’t you going to school today?” I asked suspiciously, feeling like I couldn’t trust anyone linked to my daughter.
“I am. My parents asked the principal if I could come in a bit late today. I had to help my mom with getting my younger siblings ready for their trip to visit my grandparents,” Chloe explained.
“Oh, say hi to your parents for me. And please don’t mention this conversation to your friend. I don’t want her getting her back up and then lying about the purse, okay?”
“Sure thing, Mrs. Dav. Have a good day,” my daughter’s best friend waved as she walked off to catch the bus to school.
I couldn’t do much that day. I kept pacing and making up all sorts of scary scenarios about my daughter’s behavior. At some point, I even wished her father was still alive, so he could handle this situation!
At that moment, I really wished I wasn’t a single parent because I sure could’ve used some guidance myself!
By the time Allison got home that evening, I was sitting in the living room, pretending to read a magazine but waiting for her. But I was determined to get to the bottom of this without flying off the handle.
“Al,” I called when she walked through the door. “We need to talk.”
She froze for a moment, sensing the seriousness in my tone, then made her way to the couch.
“What’s up?” she asked, trying to sound casual.
I didn’t waste time. “I accidentally grabbed your purse today. I found out your friends didn’t get you the purse. And what’s the story about the hotel key and a fake ID inside? Care to explain?”
Her face drained of color. “Mom, I… it’s not what you think…”
“Then start explaining,” I cut her off, trying to remain calm but firm. “Because right now, I’m struggling to understand what’s going on.”
Allison sat down, folding her hands in her lap, and took a deep breath.
“I’ve been doing freelance work… coding, IT stuff.”
I blinked. “Freelance work? At a hotel?”
She looked down, fiddling with her fingers.
“I needed somewhere quiet to work. You always get on my case when I’m on my laptop for hours at home, and I just can’t focus. The fake ID… well, it’s for getting paid without complications. It’s not like I’m doing anything illegal, I promise. I get paid really well, and that’s how I was able to afford the same purse as yours.”
I stared at her, my mind trying to wrap around the words.
“Why didn’t you tell me any of this? Why the secrets?”
“I thought you’d freak out,” she admitted, her voice quieter now. “Every time I’m on my laptop, you think I’m wasting time. I didn’t want you to worry or think I was up to no good.”
I exhaled slowly, the pieces finally coming together. She hadn’t been sneaking around with boys or getting into trouble. She was working, really working, trying to carve out her own path in the world. And I had completely missed it.
“Al,” I said softly as a pang of guilt hit me, “I wish you had told me. I may not understand everything about coding or IT, but I would’ve supported you. I’m your mom. I want to help.”
She smiled weakly. “I know, Mom. I just… I wanted to prove I could do it on my own and be independent.”
I reached over and squeezed her hand.
“You don’t have to prove anything to me. I’m proud of you, more than you know.”
I got up, and we embraced lovingly. I hoped my hug expressed how proud I was.
We sat in silence for a moment, the tension finally easing. It turned out that Allison had a natural talent for IT and coding, something I had never fully appreciated. She had already earned enough to start saving, using her skills to become independent.
She hadn’t kept secrets because she didn’t trust me, but because she didn’t want to disappoint me. The purse was a gift she bought for herself as her way to celebrate her achievements, and I must say, I was stunned by how resourceful and creative my baby was.
Now all we had to do was figure out how she could keep doing what she was doing without the fake ID and hotel, and I was ready to help out.