‘You’re Just a Babysitter, Not a Real Man,’ My Wife Said Before Leaving Me with Three Kids — Story of the Day

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I thought I had it all—a wonderful wife, three beautiful kids, and a life we built together. Everything seemed perfect. But the night I followed Angela to that party, everything I believed in came crashing down.

Every morning in my house was chaos, but the good kind. Timmy’s loud cries from his crib always started my day, followed by the sound of Kevin slamming his toy cars together, pretending they were in a fierce battle. Meanwhile, Emma would always come running to me, eager to share her excitement.

“Daddy, I have to wear my pink dress today! Everyone will love it. It’s the most amazing dress ever!” she would say, bouncing up and down. I smiled, tying her hair into a neat bow.

“Of course, sweetheart. Everyone will be impressed,” I’d reply, proud of her confidence.

The smell of chocolate cookies baking filled the air. Those cookies were my signature move. While the oven worked its magic, I was busy stitching the last touches on Kevin’s dinosaur costume.

“This has to be the coolest dino ever, Dad!” Kevin exclaimed, leaning over the table to inspect my work.

“It will be, buddy,” I reassured him. “Just wait, you’ll see.”

In the background, an audiobook played softly to keep the kids entertained. These simple moments made me feel at peace, reminding me that despite the changes in our lives, I still had something constant to hold on to.

But it hadn’t always been this way. I used to run a successful business. Long days at work and late nights allowed Angela and me to buy our house, and I even helped her pay for law school. Angela had big dreams, and I wanted to support them, even if it meant sacrificing my own.

When Emma was born, Angela asked me to stay home for a while so she could finish her internship. I agreed, thinking it would only be temporary. But when Kevin came along, her career took off, and things changed.

“I’ll handle the house and the kids,” I said, trying to ease her mind. “You focus on your work.”

Angela didn’t even take maternity leave after Kevin. She went back to work just two months after giving birth. Promotions came one after another, and her time at home grew shorter and shorter.

I became the one who fed the kids, read parenting books, and baked birthday cakes. I didn’t mind. I felt proud of how capable I had become.

Then one afternoon, as I finished stitching the last seam on Kevin’s costume, Angela came home earlier than usual. She didn’t say hi or interact with the kids. She rushed straight to our bedroom. A few minutes later, she came out, transformed. She wore a black dress that hugged her figure perfectly, and her red lipstick gleamed under the light. She looked stunning.

“There’s a work party tonight. I need to be there,” she said, adjusting her earrings.

“A work party?” I asked, surprised. “You didn’t mention it. I could’ve gone with you.”

“It’s late, it’s for work, and you wouldn’t enjoy it,” Angela replied, dismissing me with a wave. Without another word, she was gone.

For a moment, I stood there, my mind spinning. Something didn’t feel right. I grabbed my phone and dialed our neighbor, Mrs. Graham.

“Hi, could you watch the kids for a couple of hours tonight?” I asked.

Once she agreed, I quickly turned off the oven, changed into my best shirt, and grabbed a bouquet of Angela’s favorite lilies.

“Tonight,” I murmured to myself, “I’ll remind her of what we used to have.”

The party was filled with energy when I arrived. The music pulsed through the air, and the room sparkled with expensive clothes and jewelry. I felt out of place in my simple shirt and slacks, clutching the lilies like a nervous teenager.

My eyes scanned the crowd, and I spotted Angela on stage. She was the center of attention, speaking with such grace and confidence. She looked breathtaking, like someone from a magazine cover. I couldn’t help but feel proud of her as I listened to her speech. Her words flowed effortlessly, and the audience hung on every sentence.

My wife is brilliant, I thought. How did I get so lucky?

After her speech ended, I started to step forward to surprise her with the flowers. But then, a man appeared beside her. He handed her a massive bouquet of orchids—an extravagant display I could never afford.

And then he hugged her.

My heart skipped a beat. Angela’s face lit up with a smile, but it wasn’t the smile she gave me. This one was warm, intimate, and full of emotion. I stood frozen, gripping the lilies, my mind racing as I watched them talk. They stopped near the exit, and I heard her voice, clear as day:

“Just a little longer, and we won’t have to hide. I’m filing for divorce soon.”

My legs felt like they would give out beneath me, but I forced myself to step forward. I held out the flowers silently. Angela’s eyes widened when she saw me, but she didn’t say a word. Without looking back at me, she turned and walked away.

It was over. She was someone I didn’t even recognize anymore. The woman I had adored had turned into someone cold, someone calculating. Her words still rang in my ears:

“I don’t love you anymore. You’re nothing more than a babysitter, not a real man.”

The disgust in her eyes cut deeper than anything I could’ve imagined. She stood in the living room days later, calmly listing her demands like she was reading off a shopping list.

“I’ll take the house, the car, and all the savings. You can keep the kids.” Her tone was so casual, so cold. It wasn’t out of love. Angela didn’t want the kids. She wanted control.

The divorce dragged on, turning into a cold, business-like process. No apologies, no heartfelt conversations. I braced myself for the worst, but when the court’s decision came, it was a small victory. I was granted custody of the kids and ownership of the house.

It wasn’t the win I had hoped for, but it was something.

Now, everything rested on my shoulders. I had to find a job, provide for my children, and rebuild a life that had been shattered.

The job market felt like a foreign land to me after years of staying home with the kids.

One morning, as I dropped Kevin off at preschool, I stood by the door, watching him run to his friends. A voice pulled me from my thoughts.

“Hi, Andrew.” It was Jennifer, one of the other single moms in Kevin’s class and a teacher at the preschool.

“We’re looking for a teaching assistant,” she said, her voice friendly. “Maybe it’s exactly what you need right now.”

Her words caught me off guard. A teaching assistant? I hadn’t even thought about something like that.

“Do you think they’d consider me?” I asked, doubt creeping in.

“Of course,” Jennifer said. “You’re great with the kids. Why not make it official?”

I decided to apply, and within weeks, I was working at the preschool. It wasn’t permanent, but it was enough to cover our bills. Plus, it gave me more time with the kids.

A few months later, Kevin and Emma were performing in a class play. I stood in the crowd, clapping proudly as my kids took their bows.

Then, I spotted Angela. She had never come to any of these preschool events, and seeing her there filled me with unease. After the performance, she approached me with a smile that didn’t reach her eyes.

“Let’s talk,” she said sweetly. “I’ve been thinking… maybe we should give our family another chance.”

I froze. Her tone was off, too sugary to be sincere. It didn’t take long to realize what had happened. Her new boyfriend had left her, and her business was struggling. She didn’t want me back. She wanted the stability I could offer.

“I can’t do this,” I said, my voice firm. “We’re not a family anymore. You’re welcome to see the kids, but that’s it.”

Angela’s smile instantly turned into a glare. “If you think you can just refuse me, you’re wrong,” she hissed. “I’ll take the kids. You don’t even have a stable job. The court will rule in my favor.”

Her words weren’t about love. They were about control.

The stakes had never been higher. The next few weeks were the most stressful of my life. Angela’s threats hung over me like a storm cloud. I couldn’t sleep, couldn’t think without hearing her words:

“I’ll take the kids. The court will side with me.”

But Jennifer became my lifeline. She listened when I needed to vent, gave advice when I was lost, and even brought me coffee when I felt like I might collapse.

“You’ve been the primary caregiver for years,” she said one night, surrounded by stacks of paperwork. “No court would take the kids away from you. We just need to prove it.”

Her words gave me hope, but I knew that hope alone wouldn’t win this fight. Together, we worked tirelessly, gathering photos, testimony from neighbors, and even letters from the preschool teachers.

The day of the court hearing arrived. Angela was already there, dressed in a sleek designer suit. As her lawyer made his case, the argument was clear: Angela’s financial stability would give the kids a better future. But when the judge asked about her role in their lives, she faltered. The polished image cracked.

Our evidence spoke louder than her words. And when the judge made his ruling, it was in my favor. Full custody of the kids was mine, while Angela was granted visitation rights.

Outside, Jennifer was waiting for me. She smiled and hugged me tightly. “I told you we’d figure it out!”

Life didn’t return to normal right away. I kept working at the preschool, and with Jennifer’s encouragement, I enrolled in evening courses to become a certified teacher.

As the days turned into weeks, my bond with Jennifer grew. She became more than a friend; she became my anchor, reminding me that even in the darkest times, there was always hope. One evening, as we sat in the yard, watching the kids play, Jennifer turned to me

and said with a smile, “You know, sometimes life has a funny way of giving you exactly what you need when you least expect it.”

She was right. Angela’s betrayal had broken me, but it also pushed me to discover my strength, my purpose, and something I never thought I’d find again: love.

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